The Sky is not the Same Color for Everyone
Just finished watching the movie A Jihad for Love. One of the first of its kind - a documentary following the personal stories of Homosexuals in Muslim nations. A highly controversial film, highlighting these issues which most dare not talk about.
It is heartbreaking to see these people’s struggle between love for their religion vs. realizing their sexuality. At first fighting against their innate feelings, hoping that the “wrong” can be cured, seeking advice, even marrying - to eventually find out that there is no cure. One of the women interviewed in the film described her search for answers to figure out why she was different, and how she could change. She tried the IslamOnline web portal, where she got in touch with Imams and other priests who all suggested that she get married as a cure. Well, she did. And she also somehow managed to get a divorce and escape from her country years later.
A Persian man told his tale - arrested at a “gay” meetup, whipped and beaten, managed to flee to Turkey. He received refugee status from the UNHCR and a visa to Canada. He cries when he finally arrives in Canada - “How can I be free when so many others cannot?!”
What touched me most was seeing how devoted these people still are; after all they’ve been through. How they maintain such a strong connection with their god, even though they are afraid; afraid that they will be punished by god for their actions. The film also introduces the concept of Ijtihad, or independent reassuring. It is defined as the process of making a legal decision by independent interpretation of the legal sources, the Qur’an and the Sunnah. Conservative Muslims say that most Muslims do not have the training in legal sources to conduct ijtihad. They argue that this role was traditionally given to those who have studied for a number of years under a scholar. However, liberal movements within Islam generally argue that any Muslim can perform ijtihad, through which gay Muslims can justify their right for being both Homosexual and follow the Islam.
Tonight I feel thankful.
Thankful for living in a culture that will not stone me to death if I fall in love with a man.
Thankful to have the freedom and support to act according to my heart.
Thankful that the sky is piercing blue, for me.

Sharma refuses to associate homosexuality with shame, but recognizes the need to protect the safety and privacy of his sources, by filming them in silhouette or with their faces blurred. In one case, the family of an Afghan woman he interviewed “would undoubtedly kill her” if they found out she was lesbian. In another example, one of the associate producers, an Egyptian gay man, chose not to be listed in the credits for fear of possible consequences.
The film was banned from screening at the 2008 Singapore International Film Festival “in view of the sensitive nature of the subject that features Muslim homosexuals in various countries and their struggle to reconcile religion and their lifestyle,” Amy Chua, Singapore Board of Film Censors chairwoman was quoted as saying by The Straits Times.
The film’s director updates his daily blog with thoughts from his tour as well as comments he receives from fans of the film around the world.
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